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mike
53 San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 31 - 59
Alan
52 San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 50
Women often say that most men tend to be one-dimensional. But those who get to know me find that I have a balanced and multifaceted personality.  In my daily life, especially in my career, I am very concrete, facts oriented, pragmatic, efficient. But there is another side of me that feels intrigued by everything having to do with feelings and emotions. It's not that I want my feelings and emotions to take control of my life, but I fully acknowledge what I feel and to a certain extent I like to reflect on why I feel a certain way, and I often read books on what I call the intangible aspects of our life. I see that most men don't seem to have that side. They are all about only what is tangible and nothing else. Well, I can be as tangible as all of them but I that feel life deserves also being creative, intuitive and romantic. I am also intrigued by what other people feel, I like to hear them describe their feelings and emotions, trying to understand what makes them who they are. I believe that deep down inside we are much more than just our jobs, our cars, our homes and whatever leisure activities we may pursue in our free time. Those are factual, external matters that describe our tangible daily life, but our real worth is what we have inside. Here are some everyday examples about me being multifaceted. I can build furniture or repair hardware, but I can also have a deep conversation on the meaning of life. I am perfectly comfortable on a hiking trail wearing scruffy outdoorsy clothes, but I can also dress up and be charming at social events. I am very professional when it comes to work but I can be laid back and fun oriented in my leisure time. I like intense fun, like live music concerts or wild rides at amusement parks, but I also enjoy quiet times at home reading. I love books, especially non-fiction and those dedicated to understanding ourselves, also known as personal growth books. I really like music, nearly of any kind. I can be quite happy with my high end studio-quality headsets playing loud music in my ears, sitting in my favorite armchair by my fireplace and some good reading material in my hands. I tend to be detail oriented, and generally I prefer to either do things right or not at all. I view being overly trendy with some circumspection. If there is something new and trendy that suddenly everyone likes and it just so happens that I genuinely like it too, then sure, I will embrace it. But if something new and trendy does not match my taste or preferences I have no problem ignoring it, no matter how popular it may be. Sometimes I am an early adopter, like for example smartphones: I remember being the first to get one among all my friends. But then, years later, when I noticed that we were all becoming addicted to our smartphone and could not leave it alone for even a minute, I started getting some kind of an adverse reaction to it, and now I intentionally make very limited use of it. It's not uncommon that I like something that nobody likes, and that I don't like something that everyone else likes. A good example is movies. The ones I like are generally the obscure ones that were not very popular, while I tend to not like the big successful movies that everyone knows and likes. I enjoy traveling. I have been to a lot of places around the world in nearly all continents, and I consider myself an experienced traveler. Good health is one of my priorities, so I am selective in what I eat and I do nothing unhealthy. I would never even think of smoking or excessive drinking. I may sip on a single small drink occasionally at social events, but that's it. Not only I am open to those who may be from a background different than mine, but I actually have a slight preference for those who are. My thinking is that if we are from a culture or a background that is not identical we can better enrich each other by sharing diverse knowledge and experiences. Also, a preference of mine is for someone who is not overly superficial. And I tend to gravitate toward those with integrity and who are responsible with their life. When I realize that someone is flaky, irresponsible and unable or unwilling to follow through with plans or commitments made, it tends to be a bit of a turnoff for me. When it comes to giving attention, I tend to be more of a giver than a taker. I will always be very attentive toward someone who is close to me, either in a relationships or a friendship, but I do not need much in return. That said, if you are one who needs to spend nearly the entire time during our first date looking at your phone for text messages or checking non-stop your social media ... chances are we are not a very good match.  Yes, I know this was long.  But why not put everything on the table for you, so you know upfront?
David
54 San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 65
Please read everything ... I do not like ghetto women or loud women or rude women or stuck-up women or women who lie and want money to be my friend and lover. Please move on. I embrace Jesus Christ - study theology (all religions fascinate me) - have been a guest of lucifer (i do have a dark side or at least a scar on my soul)- enjoy learning about ancient cultures and dig Anubis. I am honest - monogamous (don't cheat EVER) - Vasectomy (I can not (NOT) have more children - no diseases (aids- HIV - hep c - bugs ). I very rarely get angry and rarely yell or get mad. I'm calm - mature and childish- Control of my emotions - focused on my career. I'm in school until Feb 2025. Working on my Advanced degree as a Surgical Technologist. My career goal is to work in a Level 1 Trauma Operating Room (I want to pull bullets out of people). I am the guy who assists the surgeon. I was in a long term relationship and learned alot about relationships and how to keep one. Marraige is a commitment and requires work from both people (that's basic) ... if you want to grow old with somebody ... you need much more! I'm the guy who promises to make you laugh everyday. I'm the guy who cleans the bathroom and makes us dinner before you hit home ... because we are friends. I'm the guy who rubs your feet and gives you messages because you deserve it. I am not submissive... I am a real man! My former wife left me for Donald Trump and MaGA and moved to Indiana to find her people ...( no drama )... and if you support MAGA ... then feel free to move to Indiana ... your people await your arrival. I respect a womens opinion and yes ... your usually right. In exchange... I'm the man who guides you into places that you would never have considered. Let's go to Egypt and walk the halls of a Pyramid ... let's go to Machipichu Peru and eat some coca leaves and explore the ancient ruins. Hey let's take a cruze to Antarctica and sip hot chocolate on the deck and look at penguins. Hey let's sit and watch TV and cuddle on a cold rainy day ... let's watch Disney. Hey let's go to Las Vegas ... get drunk watch some shows and have crazy sex !
Peter
52 San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 50
Bradley
53 San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 38 - 62
Johnson
58 San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 34 - 53
Mark
54 San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 56
Sergio
53 San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 31 - 50
Carlos
51 San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 60
Jacques
55 San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 50
Gavin
57 San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 56
Richard
56 San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 44
Robert
59 San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 39
Nico
53 San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 48

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