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vj
Platinum Member
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 55
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Jef
Standard Member
60
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 56
Real Christian Biz Owner, Very Fit Athletic,❤ Like
Scientist, Outdoors ,Very Fitness oriented, Laughter, Very Loving to One Woman ❤, Respect Thoughtfulness, Team Effort Enjoy Traveling. Enjoy Symphonies, Enjoy Good Dining, Enjoy Cooking Together, Enjoy washing dishes! Enjoy Looking my Woman in the Eyes and Softly, but Firmly Saying I Love You❤! Enjoy being Kind to Others, Enjoy Listening, Enjoy Slow dance🙂, enjoy putting others before myself. I like to hold Hands!!❤... I like to pull woman close to me her hold tight...and softly Nibble on her Ear as I whisper "Special Inspiring words" in her ears!!😛... I have extreme, strong , well developed Skills in giving good Massages
Raphael
Standard Member
Verified
33
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 23 - 40
I’m sent here to Find My Queen.
I’m 32 and single with no children. I work for Morgan Stanley, as a securities broker. I’m a fun person that loves traveling, concerts, festivals, learning, music, fashion, and most of love spending time with my friends and family. I also hear on earth to fulfill my mission on being the best I can be.
Steven
Standard Member
61
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 24 - 82
i'm looking for a positive strong woman
i'm a very easy-going guy, adventurous & enjoy what life has to offer. : ) Very Possibly, Open minded guy... I'm profoundly SERIOUS here, no games Long-Term Relationship, with a fairly Dominate Woman... Very Possibly Marriage I'm also a God-fearing man who's loving and caring as a family person. Peaceful and positive person ready for a relationship that will lead to marriage.
Eric
Standard Member
Verified
53
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 28 - 48
I STAND WITH UKRAINE 🇺🇦 ✊🏼💪🏼🤝 ☮️✌🏼
I am both . . . in love with instant gratification, but able to keep my eye on the big picture and be extremely patient when necessary . . . part dog since I'm eager to please others, but also part cat because I don't take it personally if I can't make that happen every time . . . Ivy League educated, but with much yet to learn . . . a wanderlust travel junkie who is always happy to be back home again . . . equally comfortable in the throbbing pulse of the big city or the quiet, gentle rhythms of nature in the middle of nowhere . . . mad about the night and the infinite possibilities it offers, but truly appreciative of the next morning and the promise of a new day . . . in the end, probably a little like everyone else you know, definitely a lot like nobody you've ever met. A true [INFP]. "To laugh often and love much, to win the respect of intelligent persons and the affection of children, to earn the approbation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends, to appreciate beauty, to find the best in others, to give of one's self, to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition, to have played and laughed with enthusiasm and sung with exultation, to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived - this is to have succeeded." Ralph Waldo Emerson
Sam
Standard Member
46
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 36
Searching for my sole mate
I'm very Organized person. Optimistic, Independent, likes intellectual conversation, a good listener, adventurous, Fun to be with, humanitarian, loves to cook, Book worm, humorous, Loving and caring. In love with nature, traditional not religious yet a spiritual person. I have zero tolerance with psychopaths and arrogance. I often use logic rather than my feelings. I respect freedom and space which is also part of my personality, sometimes I can be quite, not talking too much but it’s not a problem. It’s just that I’m on my deep level of thoughts.
Gregory
Standard Member
60
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 34 - 70
30 day trial- Satisfaction guaranteed
Let me unlock your heart and release your love. (Deixe-me abrir seu coração e liberar seu amor.) I am a man that is passionate about both life and love, always seeking to bring out the very best in my mate by being a thoughtful listener to both the things she says, and the things unsaid with words but quietly revealed in her emotions. I am a sensitive man but not a soft man, I am affectionate but not smothering. I am confident but not cocky, I am modest but not meek. I am a well-groomed gentleman always knowing the right thing to wear to the appropriate event. I am a tall 6'6 260 lb and well built black male that has enjoyed interracial relationships and is open-minded to finding love abroad.
Jamin
Standard Member
60
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 36 - 60
To Love and Be Loved that is what really matters.
I wish the best of luck to all those women looking for their perfect soul mate. I will start off by saying I am far from perfect, but I do have much experience, devotion, enthusiasm, passion, confidence, and eagerness to learn and love. I am an active, healthy, happy, easy going, loyal, down-to-earth, manly man that enjoys and appreciates all the good things in life. I feel very fortunate to have achieved most my goals and to be living well in Santa Barbara, California.
Doyle
Standard Member
Verified
65
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 40 - 60
Love everyone always, or at least anyways.
Life is great but there is just too much beauty in this world for a man to bear alone. It's nice to have someone witness our lives. I'm happy, emotionally mature, lighthearted, fun loving, authentic, impeccably honest, (my photos are current) overconfident, loving, & funny. I'm well rounded: mentally, physically, emotionally, & spiritually. Mentally: I'm a mediator, counselor, & Neuro-linguistic Programmer. I've worked at the Rape Crisis Center, taught at City College, & lectured nationwide. I've been a frequent speaker on national radio & TV. I’m writing my 5th & 6th self-help books & 3rd screenplay. My first 2 books were about relationship communication. I love reading, learning, psychology, philosophy, history, movies, & photography. I've sold 80k of my books & 100K of my inventions. I was co-owner of natural foods corporation. I’m a licensed contractor & have built many homes. Physically: I've eaten organic health foods for 46 years. I attend Gold’s Gym & martial arts weekly. In 2019, I traveled to 6 countries in 7 months. I love hiking, camping, skiing, rock climbing, & motorcycling. I’ve been swing dancing for 33 years. I love evening & morning walks, binge TV, or just relaxing around the house. Emotionally: I've matured a lot. I seldom get angry. I laugh often & cry sometimes. I aim to be more vulnerable & sensitive. Spiritually: Holistic Love is my religion, nature is my church, & children are sacred. G.O.D. stands for the Great Out Doors. I’ve focused my life searching around the world for the facts about the ultimate reality. I aim to Love Everyone Always, but so far I have been able to do is to love them anyways.
Robert
Standard Member
Verified
64
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 33 - 52
Dedicated family man
A few female friends and my sisters often say to me "You're a good catch!" or "you're the only one in the family that has their sh't together". If that is so, break out your fishing Poles, here I am! And the best bait to use is honesty, confidence and love. I receive a pension from my time spent in the military, and also enjoy helping people to get relief from pain with my therapeutic training and practice. I am also involved with music which brings me gratitude when I see people enjoying my art. I enjoy spending time out in nature ( I begin with a barefoot walk on the bluffs near my apt.) or being at home, practicing music, reading (music theory, psychology, spanish, ...) or exercising. I might occasionally expand my menu by trying out a new raw vegan recipe, and then maybe sit down to a good SiFi movie to enjoy it. For fun, I might take a drive up the coast or attend an outdoor dance where either I'm djing or a friend is. Are you a dancer? As for you ... you want a strong family unit, you are a kind, and honest person, and you seeks a long term relationship. You love the arts and are creative; you are a healthy person, and enjoy being out in nature. You're also a single mother seeking a loving, dependable, committed and supporting partner to help you raise your kid(s), and you would like another child (children). I'm a better man in my life from spending years working on something terrible that happened to me in my childhood. I've developed a great love and compassion for myself as well as love and compassion for others. I am ready to share a beautiful life with the woman who wants the same.
Chazzcarterws
Standard Member
36
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 33
I seek the kingdom of God and serve Christ
I believe in Christ. If you do not or do not see yourself seeking Christ, then I am not for you. I will court my future wife and show her with my actions the man I have become. I want a woman who is my friend first and a wife/mother second that has decided to dedicate her life to serving her creator without my influence. I have built my "kingdom" and need a worthy woman to help me further build a family and legacy that serves our Creator and Savior.
Sergio A.
Standard Member
32
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 40
My name is Sergio. I will tell you a little about
My name is Sergio. I will tell you a little about my personality and my personal goals, desires which I want to have with my partner. I am a fun, outgoing, charming person who loves outdoor activities such as reading about many topics in general, I am passionate about entrepreneurship such as acquiring new skills in different areas, I studied marketing and advertising.
Robert
Standard Member
64
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 44
Robert 4 You
Fun, mellow, musical, like good food, friends and great love
Michael
Standard Member
59
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 39 - 51
Searching for my lost star...
I enjoy going to the beach, music, traveling ,cooking, shopping, going to cultural festivals...
Johnny
Standard Member
64
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 43 - 50
I’m here😊
Honest and loyal
Abu
Standard Member
59
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 65
You Are Missing From Me
A 99 year old white woman called me a Rare Jewel and said she would marry me if she was still young. May be she knows stuff about me that you don’t. I am loyal, tolerant and accept people for who they are, not what I prefer them to be.
Charles
Standard Member
69
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 24 - 69
looking for love
Im 62, retired and working, looking for friends, friendship and whatever may become of it
Michael
Standard Member
70
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 44
Sincere man seeking sincere faithful lady
caring faithful and sincere If your Going to ask for Money please do not contact Me. I am very Generous to the person I am with.
eddie
Standard Member
66
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 50
Hmmmm...
I work for a large medical device company.
Dave
Standard Member
70
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 33 - 52
Looking
honest and faithfull
jacob
Standard Member
33
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 40
hello
I work as a teacher. I live in China. I am a Christian converting to Eastern Orthodoxy
Brian
Standard Member
72
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 39 - 59
james
Standard Member
47
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 27 - 46
hi
call me
Michael
Standard Member
41
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 24 - 43
Omar
Standard Member
32
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 18
Let's hangout at the beach!
I'm from California, United States and I've heard great things about Thailand and how nice the ladies are so I decided to come see for myself!
Лео
Standard Member
45
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 27 - 45
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Braidon
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30
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
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Female 21 - 40
Ryan
Standard Member
38
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 23 - 42
Peter
Standard Member
59
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 34 - 60
Keith
Standard Member
74
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 56
James
Standard Member
20
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
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Female 18 - 27
Anthony
Standard Member
34
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 32
Darren
Standard Member
38
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 39
Mike
Standard Member
52
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 48
Good man looking for a good woman!
Served time in the military, traveling the world learning and loving life and the people in the country stationed. I love all women from all backgrounds, I am a hopeless romantic, and have been taken advantage of by women in the past because they
Nick
Standard Member
32
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Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 27
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