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Tyler

32 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 25 - 45

Depression sucks. It feels like you're floating in shallow water looking up at the surface. The surface doesn't seem too far away, but you can't ever break it. There's a weight on your chest keeping you from ever getting your head above the water. The water's too shallow for you to turn over and drop the weight, the ground is too slippery for you to catch your footing. You're stuck feeling like you're drowning, unable to breathe every second that you're awake. People come up with all kinds of stupid solutions. "Go to church; get Jesus." I'm sorry, I tried that. He and I aren't exactly on good terms. If he's real he's just a reprobate and a thug. "Get a hobby to take your mind off things." Tried that. Sure it works for a very short while, but then you realize that the whole point of having interests is to share them. I love a bunch of things, but in a world where I can't discuss or enjoy those things with someone else, I simply begin to hate the very hobbies and interests that I have. They're no longer a distraction from the pain and loneliness; they become a reminder of it. "Well get a new hobby then." I've tried every hobby under the f*cking sun. They all end in the same state of despair. "Well, just tell yourself to be happy. Manifest it and it will come to you." Honestly, that's cute. I used to be a hippy, too. The universe doesn't manifest just because you want it to and try to tell yourself that it will. You think I don't look in the mirror every morning and tell myself "be happy you f@cking idiot"? It. Doesn't. Work. You hear sympathy and concern from people you wish would shut the f@ck up and leave you alone. Meanwhile, the people that might be able to help, fck even god if he's actually there, just crickets. In the end the best thing I can do to prevent myself from self harm is to sit in a chair by myself in darkness getting high and drunk until I fall asleep, but that also slowly chips away at me until I'm not even a person anymore. It doesn't get better. I remember shortly after high school trying to convince myself to have hope. Telling myself that if all I experienced up until that point was pain and depression, that it must be the universe balancing itself; that the second half of my life was going to have dark times obviously, but that they'd be bookended by brilliantly happy moments or at the very least decent moments. I tried to convince myself that something good had to happen eventually to balance the scales. I genuinely believed that the universe was Newtonian; equal and opposite forces playing off of each other. A decade and a half later and things only ever get worse. "The universe works in mysterious ways." It's really not that mysterious; it knocks you into the dirt and refuses to let you up. It keeps kicking you and curb-stomping you while you're down.

Adam

37 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 35

Looking for her

Jody

51 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 32 - 48

Open to meeting new people and seeing what happens

I’m a very busy man I own two small businesses so my time is valuable. I’m noted for being a kind man if interested in a kind man then please message me. I would prefer a lady of European descent that’s what I’m most attracted too. Sorry I’m very strict in what I desire and it is a lady of European descent. Don’t bother messaging me if you are from another country I cannot change who I’m attracted to.

Lodebar

61 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 21 - 40

Mr lodebar

I love long walks I love to read I like a good glass of wine I love to cook I love to clean I love a clean woman I have a cleaning service that's what I do for a living I contract for the federal and state government here in the US I've been doing that for 20 years and I also work a second job I'm a musician I play the keyboards guitar bass and I sing music is my passion making love is my number and passion to the woman that I intend to be with until I'm buried in the dirt with her

David

56 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 37

Look out world, here I come!!!!!

I'm a man who let too much life go by without starting a family. I want to correct that with a kind, trustworthy, pretty Filipina. MY SUBSCRIPTION HERE HAS ENDED. I AM NOW AT INTERNATIONALCUPID.COM. IF YOU WANT TO CHAT ME, PLEASE JOIN THERE. I’M ONLY LOOKING FOR WOMEN OF CHILD BEARING AGE!!!!!

Scott

37 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 23 - 50

GREAT MAN

Noah

30 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: 21 - 40

Add me on Snapchat to talk: nonobugg_13

I’m from Illinois, USA. Looking for fun, adventure, and chats currently. Open to more someday. Love nature, art, and trying different food. I am trans FTM. Im an open book. Respectful Questions are welcome.

Damion

37 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 40

Hi there I'm Damion but you can call me Edge

I love the outdoors,cooking, sports and im an artis

Bryan

59 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 38 - 58

Looking for love.

Happy easy going.

Eric

59 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 30 - 48

Someone who values family, honesty and commitment.

I'm a hard working educated man who enjoys life and willing to give my all in a relationship.

Clarence

61 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 55 - 64

Rich

49 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 26 - 56

Ali

44 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 28

Good Muslim

I am sincere person with good values. I like the outdoors and being active. I like to be around friends and family. Family is most important in life. Respect, care, and understanding build a relationship. Believe in Allah

Andrew

38 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 22 - 50

Hello, I can't read most messages. wxid_r4u2g1...

Drywall finisher

Matt

23 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Male 18 - 26

Kind, caring, loving, empathetic, resilient.

I love being outdoors when I am not running my small business.

Eric

46 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 30 - 40

Hello

It's just me.

Michael

28 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 20 - 38

I will not bite, so feel free to message me.

Hello, my name is Michael and if you want to know get to know me then please talk to you and ask questions.

Leonard

56 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 32 - 52

I love life, I love to read and write and listen .

I'm very laid back and im very caring kind of person.

Ravon

28 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 20 - 30

Just looking for someone to share my life with 😁

Well I like to work out and stay in shape and healthy as much as possible. I love to cook at home and try out new recipes. I am a very outgoing person, I love to travel and see the world. I love going to church and volunteering for my church as well.

Alex

29 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Male 20 - 39

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Lodebar

60 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 21

Mr Lodebar

I own my own business I have for the past 20 years I'm a government contractor I'm also musician I play piano I sing I write I compose

Brian

41 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 24 - 45

Tired of dating in the states.

Laid back and honest. I don't drink anymore, but love hanging with friends.

David

66 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 45 - 60

Life partner needed

I am a retired grandfather of six. I moved to Illinois from the Pacific Northwest with my two dogs when I retired. I like to play golf, when I get the chance, although I'm not very good. Even though my working life is over, I am far from ready to ca

Michael

56 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 32 - 51

Looking for the right lady

A Stand-up guy who enjoys the outdoors and very ambitious and staying active in life and God fearing Man

Sheldon

38 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 35 - 55

What’s there?

I’m a pretty simple guy, but that doesn’t mean boring. I like deep conversations and also explore new things just as the next person

chris

49 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 22 - 55

Looking for best friend, soulmate and my Queen

Hardworking, loyal and fun

Genji

52 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 50 - 51

I'm easy going

I'm easy going I'm loyal I'm honest I don't drink I don't smoke I never been married I don't have any kids I like going to the movies I like reading old history books I like outside Sports I like camping jogging hiking bicycling yoga

Ken

57 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 31 - 48

Starting Over

Been married twice. Trying to find a relationship for the rest of my life. I love outdoor activities, reading, listening to music, and watching sports and movies.

Chris

40 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 21 - 55

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Andrew

33 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 20 - 38

Louis

45 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 27 - 46

Stefan

38 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 23 - 28

Oscar

39 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 23 - 44

Cole

19 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 28

Avi

53 • Springfield, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 30 - 50

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