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Starr
45 San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 45
leandro
34 San Leandro, California, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 30
Jed
40 Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 36
안녕하세요 (Hi, how are you?) Genuinely curious. Most people just call me Jed or Jedi. Had the nickname Captain for a while but that's a story for another time. Not looking for any short-term flings or dating around. Looking for that life-long partner to grow with, share in adventures, and start a family with. Preferably someone who's a religious Christian, reads God's word and attends church or is willing to. A person to share in the amazing times and work through the tough ones.  Maybe sing in the car together on road trips or dress up cosplay sometime. Make eachother's fantasies a reality.  You know, that "until death do us part" kind of partner. Don't just go with the flow, make your own.  You really don't want just plain normal anyway. I enjoy a lot of outdoor activities, but by no means expect my partner to do them all. However,  hiking, camping, and swimming together are non-negotiable (at the very least be willing to join me and learn). I currently work in lean (OpEx) manufacturing design and development for a large medical device corporation. Also working towards getting my own businesses off the ground.   I've studied Architecture, Engineering, and Business. So yes, I could build us a house or take your car completely apart and put it back together again. I am a perpetual learner.  Going for that growth mindset. You can never have too much knowledge or faith, and a few other things as well.  I am currently studying Dance (come be my partner), Improv and various communication aspects, as well as trying to become fluent in hangul (Korean Language). Computer geek. Star Trek and Seinfeld fan. Car enthusiast. Ride a Triumph. Traveler, rock climber, ice climber, skier, kiteboarder, hiker, kayak, white water, camping, scuba diving.....hell, anything outdoors or active. Done a bit of skydiving too (8 jumps, all solo, never did a tandem jump ?). For a less intimidating and more casual interaction, join me in my group sometime on MeetUp. My group -  (Something-to-Do-Friends-to-Make) Don't let the endless list of activities scare you.  I too enjoy a lazy day cuddled up and spooning with a nice relaxing movie together, wine tasting, lay in the park or on the beach, or even the occasional pedicure (I know a great place in Santa Barbara).  I love to give massage as well. Enjoy having a few drinks (always responsibly) at a Jazz lounge, watching an orchestra, or performing arts venue. Love Korean BBQ. 김치 찌개가 제일 좋아요 (Kimchi Jjiggae is my favorite food). I'm a huge believer and practicer of forgive and forget. Noone is perfect and we all do dumb, illogical, and ill-thoughtout things from time to time. I hate to argue but know all relationships must do it occasionally. I'm more of a thinker and internalizer than a vocalist so sometimes I can be pretty quiet but I am always listening. The new day usually brings a happy me. Let’s talk about it and move on. And onto the less talked about subject - SEX. I always wished and wanted to wait till marriage. Sadly that is not the world we live in today. Sex is extremely important to me. As such, so is sexual compatibility. Sex is for a devoted couple's procreation, recreation, and communication.  Finding out after marriage that we are not sexually compatible is way too late and a lot of time and effort wasted. So if you're looking for a guy who will wait, I am sorry but unless you can convince me otherwise, you are not worth the risk. That's not to say I want sex right away nor am I all about it. On the contrary, our relationship is first and foremost important. Let's build a strong, comfortable foundation first. If that wasn't too long of an intro for ya, I don't know what is, lol. So let's meet.

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